Stuck in the same argument? Translate it.
Describe a fight you keep having. We’ll suggest how it might come from a mismatch in how you each give and receive love, and what to try instead. Free, no sign-up.
What you type is sent to our AI provider to write one answer, and we don’t save it. Leave out names and private details. Up to 5 a day.
How it works
A free love language test that measures giving and receiving separately — then an optional paid guide if you want interpretation.
1. Take the free assessment
Up to 55 quick questions for each part (receiving and giving): ratings, what hurts when it’s missing, and pick-your-top-two scenarios. Runs entirely in your browser; answer what fits and skip the rest.
2. Get your full free report
All five love-language scores for how you give and how you receive, with confidence ratings and consistency flags. Scores are never withheld.
3. Optional paid guide
A one-time $9 Personal Love Guide, or a $19 Couples Translation Guide when both partners complete their profiles. Payment buys interpretation, not your scores.
See how you give love vs. how you want to receive it — free
The two are scored separately, because they rarely match — and the mismatch is usually where relationships grind. Two parts, about 10–15 minutes in total, and the full scored report is free: no account, no email, everything runs in this browser.
Optional setup — name, date, context & privacy Skippable
Choose temporary storage on a shared device. Reset all clears both modes.
The questions
Two parts: how you like to receive love, then how you give it. Quick ratings, a few “pick your top two” situations, and room for your own examples. Answer what fits — you can skip the rest.
See your results
Your full report is free. You can rate how true it feels afterwards; that never changes the score.
Your partner takes the test, answers both parts, and taps “Save results for my partner”, then sends you that file (or a share link). Their results stay in this browser unless you buy the couples guide.
Pricing
The assessment and full report are free. The paid guides add AI-written interpretation — one-time payments, no subscription, no account.
Free assessment — $0
The complete test and full scored report: all five love-language scores for both giving and receiving, confidence rating, consistency flags, partner comparison, and exports. Payment buys interpretation, not your scores.
Personal Love Guide — $9 one-time
Turn your receive-versus-give pattern into clear requests, practical actions, future-partner conversation starters, and a fridge sheet to print. Requires your completed receive and give profiles. Access stays in this browser for 30 days.
Couples Translation Guide — $19 one-time
A joint guide for where each partner’s receiving needs and natural giving style meet or miss — a two-person mismatch map, translation plays, shared actions, and a fridge sheet to print. Requires both partners’ completed profiles. Access stays in this browser for 30 days.
Give it as a gift. You get a private link to send. They open it within 30 days, then take the free test with their partner.
For comparison, the official 5 Love Languages® Premium Assessment was listed at $39 (on sale from $55) on 5lovelanguages.com in September 2026. Love Mismatch is an independent tool and is not affiliated with or endorsed by Dr. Gary Chapman or The 5 Love Languages®.
How the scoring works
Clear rules, run on your device. No AI touches the free report.
Each mode — receiving and giving — scores up to 55 selections: 25 core ratings on a 0–5 scale, 10 absence/pain ratings weighted 1.5× (because the pain of a missing love language is often more diagnostic than the pleasure of a present one), and 10 forced-choice scenarios awarding +3 for your first choice and +1 for your second. Your written stories add qualitative context and are never scored.
Scoring runs entirely in your browser and is consistent: the same answers always produce the same result. Each result carries a confidence rating and consistency flags — a low-confidence or flagged result says so plainly rather than pretending certainty. This is a reflection and communication tool, not a clinical or validated psychometric assessment.
Privacy, by design
Not a policy promise — a technical constraint.
The free assessment never sends your answers anywhere: no accounts, no tracking cookies, no third-party analytics or requests of any kind. The site is locked so it cannot load trackers or code from other companies; your browser enforces that, so it is not just a promise. Your answers live in this browser — choose temporary storage on a shared device.
To see what’s working, we count a few anonymous moments, like a page view or a test started, as daily totals. Each count notes only the site that sent you here, whether you’re on a phone or a computer, and your country. Never your answers, names, IP address, or anything that identifies you.
AI enters only if you buy a guide: after checkout and explicit consent, the relevant completed results and written notes are sent to our AI provider once, to generate it. Our server keeps only a record of your payment — never your answers, stories, or the generated guide. Refunds and disputes automatically revoke access.
The free fight translator sends only what you type to our AI provider to write one answer. We don’t save it; we keep only a daily count per visitor, under a scrambled key rather than your IP address, to stop abuse.
Frequently asked questions
Is Love Mismatch really free?
Yes. The full assessment and complete scored report are free forever, with no account. The optional $9 Personal and $19 Couples guides add AI-written interpretation — they never unlock scores you'd otherwise be denied.
Is this the official 5 Love Languages® test?
No. Love Mismatch is an independent reflection tool and is not affiliated with or endorsed by Dr. Gary Chapman or The 5 Love Languages®. For comparison, the official Premium Assessment was listed at $39 (on sale from $55) on 5lovelanguages.com in September 2026; Love Mismatch's report is free and its optional guides are $9–$19 one-time.
How is the assessment scored?
Each mode scores 55 selections: 25 core ratings (0–5), 10 absence ratings weighted 1.5×, and 10 forced-choice scenarios (+3 first choice, +1 second). Scoring runs in your browser and the same answers always give the same result. The free report never uses AI or a server.
What happens to my answers?
They stay in this browser. Choose temporary storage on a shared device, or Reset all to clear everything. Share links contain derived scores only — never your written stories, boundaries, or raw answers.
What do the paid guides include, and where does my data go?
The $9 Personal Love Guide interprets your receive-versus-give pattern; the $19 Couples Translation Guide maps two partners' patterns against each other. Only after checkout and explicit consent are the relevant completed results and written notes sent to our AI provider to generate the guide. Our server keeps only a record of your payment — never your answers or the guide.
Can couples compare results?
Yes. One partner saves their results (or copies a share link) and sends it; the other adds it on their device. The comparison happens in the browser. Both partners' completed receive and give profiles are required for the Couples Translation Guide.
Can I read a purchased guide on another device?
No. There are no accounts, so access stays in the browser where you purchased, for 30 days.